{"id":7415,"date":"2025-03-02T15:25:09","date_gmt":"2025-03-02T20:25:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/?p=7415"},"modified":"2025-09-04T09:15:36","modified_gmt":"2025-09-04T14:15:36","slug":"how-gifts-and-big-donations-impact-home-buying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/how-gifts-and-big-donations-impact-home-buying\/","title":{"rendered":"How Gifts and Big Donations Impact Home Buying"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Gift money can be a game-changer when you\u2019re buying a home. With rising home prices and high upfront costs, many buyers\u2014especially first-timers\u2014struggle to save enough for down payments and closing costs. A well-timed gift from family, friends, or even an eligible organization can help bridge the gap. But gifts only go so far\u2014<strong>make sure to compare lenders, because rates can vary<\/strong>.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/tomo.com\/mortgage\/interest-rates-today?utm_source=tomo_blog&amp;utm_campaign=debtroundup\">See rate ranges in your area<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How Gift Money Can Be Used<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gift funds can typically go toward:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/whats-the-typical-down-payment-on-a-house\/\" title=\"The down payment\">The down payment<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/are-closing-costs-a-good-way-to-pick-a-lender\/\" title=\"Closing costs\">Closing costs<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Prepaid expenses like <a href=\"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/are-property-taxes-included-in-a-mortgage-payment-short-answer-yes\/\" title=\"property taxes \">property taxes <\/a>and insurance<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>But most loan programs <strong>do not allow gift funds to count toward reserve requirements<\/strong> (the savings you must have left after closing). Always confirm with your lender upfront.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Who Can Give Gift Money?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lenders and <a href=\"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/what-are-fha-loans-and-conventional-loans\/\" title=\"loan programs \">loan programs <\/a>don\u2019t treat all gift sources equally. Here\u2019s a quick comparison:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><thead><tr><th>Loan Type<\/th><th>Who Can Gift Funds<\/th><th>How Gifts Can Be Used<\/th><th>Special Rules<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td><strong>Conventional<\/strong><\/td><td>Parents, siblings, grandparents, children, fianc\u00e9\/fianc\u00e9e, domestic partners. In rare cases, close friends with a documented family-like relationship.<\/td><td>Down payment, closing costs, prepaid expenses<\/td><td>If buying a primary home, the full down payment can be gifted. For second homes or investment properties with &lt;20% down, at least 5% must come from the borrower\u2019s own funds.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>FHA<\/strong><\/td><td>Family members, employers, labor unions, charitable organizations, government agencies<\/td><td>Down payment, closing costs, prepaid expenses<\/td><td>FHA allows gift funds to cover the entire down payment. Reserves are generally not required, though some lenders may add their own stricter rules (overlays).<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>VA <\/strong><\/td><td>Family members or eligible close relations<\/td><td>Closing costs, prepaid expenses, and optional down payments<\/td><td>VA loans don\u2019t typically require down payments. Gifts usually cover closing costs or voluntary down payments. <\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Documentation &amp; Gift Letters<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every gift must be documented to the lender\u2019s satisfaction. A standard <strong>gift letter<\/strong> includes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Donor\u2019s name, relationship, and contact info<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Gift amount and transfer date<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Confirmation it\u2019s a true gift (no repayment expected)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Property address (if known)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Most lenders will also ask for supporting documents like the donor\u2019s bank statement showing the transfer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Tax Considerations for Gift Funds<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the recipient, gift money is <strong>not taxable income<\/strong>. But the IRS does set limits on how much can be given <a href=\"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/what-are-the-tax-benefits-of-owning-a-home\/\" title=\"tax\">tax<\/a>-free each year:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><tbody><tr><td><strong>Donor Type<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Annual Limit (per recipient)<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Example Scenario<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Individual<\/td><td>$19,000<\/td><td>A parent can gift $19,000 to their child without filing extra paperwork<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Married Couple<\/td><td>$38,000<\/td><td>Two parents can gift their child $38,000 together tax-free<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Above the Limit<\/td><td>Must file Form 709 (gift tax return)<\/td><td>A $50,000 gift requires IRS filing, though tax may not be owed<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Gift tax responsibilities generally fall on the donor\u2014not the homebuyer.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Key Takeaway<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gift money can be the difference between waiting years to buy and getting the keys today. But it has to be handled carefully: only certain donors are allowed, documentation must be thorough, and tax rules still apply. If you expect gift funds, <strong>loop in your lender early<\/strong>\u2014they\u2019ll walk you through acceptable sources, paperwork, and timing so the funds don\u2019t hold up your closing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gift money can be a game-changer when you\u2019re buying a home. With rising home prices and high upfront costs, many buyers\u2014especially first-timers\u2014struggle to save enough for down payments and closing costs. A well-timed gift from family, friends, or even an eligible organization can help bridge the gap. But gifts only go so far\u2014make sure to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":31,"featured_media":7643,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[299,300,309],"class_list":["post-7415","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-buying-your-first-home","tag-debt-roundup","tag-gifts"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/u6751982626_hands_touching_money_-chaos_5_-ar_43_-profile__b4d0a58b-61c7-41aa-8b9c-4bd9228f2aad_0.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7415","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/31"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7415"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7415\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7524,"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7415\/revisions\/7524"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7643"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7415"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7415"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tomo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7415"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}